TeachingYourChildtoSwimYourselfandPracticingatHome:IsItPossibleWithoutSwimmingLessons?[2026]

Your child is on a waiting list, the monthly price of swimming lessons adds up, and on social media you see parents claiming their child swims in six weeks without school. The thought quickly arises: can't I just teach my child to swim myself? And conversely: maybe as an adult you want to learn to swim yourself but don’t dare to join a group lesson. In both cases, the question is the same: how far can you really get without swimming lessons?

The short answer: further than you think, but not as far as you hope. Becoming comfortable in water, getting used to water, and practicing many skills can be done perfectly well by a parent, at home and in the pool. Really learning to swim is different from sitting in the water without fear, and a swimming diploma is different from being able to survive in a pool. What teaching yourself to swim does and does not entail, which exercises are proven to work, and how to combine self-practice with swimming lessons, you can read below.

Can you teach your child to swim yourself?

Yes, partly, and that part is bigger than many parents think. Everything related to water familiarization and basic skills you can do yourself as a parent, provided you approach it safely and playfully. The part you cannot do yourself is delivering a water-safe child according to a national standard, because that involves a diploma, an exam, and years of experience.

What you as a parent can do yourself: becoming comfortable in water

Being comfortable in water means a child feels at ease in and under water: eyes open underwater, blowing bubbles, floating, jumping, righting themselves. This is not magic, but play and repetition. Parents who regularly go to the pool with their child from a young age see that their child later progresses much more easily through the first swimming lesson phases. Swim schools recognize this immediately: children who are already comfortable in water can start the lesson right away with real skills instead of first having to overcome months of fear and getting used to the water.

You can start this part at home long before your child is ready for swimming lessons. Showering without fear, getting the head wet, playing in a toddler pool, singing songs while water goes over the face. It sounds simple and it is, but it is the foundation on which a swim school later builds.

What you cannot do yourself: a diploma and lifesaving swimming

Here the honest story becomes important. A swimming diploma is not a certificate of 'can swim a lap', but a set of demonstrated skills that together form swimming safety: entering the water, diving, floating, swimming for a certain time, swimming with clothes on, resting in deep water. This is assessed by an examination committee, not a parent standing by the poolside with the best intentions.

Moreover, in the Netherlands, swimming lesson offerings and diploma issuance are not yet legally regulated. Anyone can offer swimming lessons and issue their own diploma. There is a bill, the Swimming Skills Act, to change this and legally anchor the national swimming diploma, but as long as that law is not in place, you as a parent must choose critically. The National Council for Swimming Safety issues licenses to swim schools that work according to national requirements and may issue the National Swimming Diplomas. A school without that license can teach well but cannot issue a nationally recognized diploma. Always check this before enrolling your child.

Why 'giving swimming lessons yourself' often fails

The reason many parents stop practicing themselves is not lack of love or time, but lack of structure. A professional swimming lesson has a build-up: each skill builds on the previous one, and an instructor sees which skill is not yet automated. Without that structure, noise arises: your child does a bit of everything, learns wrong habits that are hard to unlearn later, and after a few weeks you no longer know what you are actually doing. Practicing without a goal feels after a while like swimming without direction, and then most families drop out.

Learning to swim yourself without swimming lessons: how does it work in phases?

Whether you want to teach your child to swim or want to learn to swim yourself as an adult, the build-up is the same worldwide. First the body must get used to water, then floating and breath control come, and only then the swimming strokes follow. This order is not a Dutch invention but the core of swimming education in every country, and it applies to children and adults.

Phase 1: becoming comfortable in water

This phase is all about trust: head underwater, eyes open, blowing bubbles, going down and up, playing in shallow water. A child who is afraid of water does not learn to swim, no matter how good the exercises are. That is why this phase is mainly play: diving for objects, walking through the water like a crocodile, making rain with the hands. Those who skip this phase and want to learn strokes immediately are building on quicksand.

Phase 2: floating and breath control

Floating is the basis of all swimming strokes. Whoever can float on their back can always breathe and never panics. Whoever can float on their stomach can then add legs and arms without drowning in their own movements. Practice this calmly and without time pressure: first with the help of a hand under the back, then alone, then with movements added. Breathing is the second foundation here: exhaling underwater, turning the head for air, maintaining a calm rhythm. For children, this works best through games; for adults, through clear small steps.

Phase 3: from skills to swimming strokes

Only when floating and breathing become automatic are legs and arms added. First one movement at a time, then combined, then over an increasingly longer distance. Whether your child learns freestyle, breaststroke, or a combination depends on the swim school’s method; other countries have different traditions. The underlying skills are identical everywhere. A handy rule of thumb for home: a child can only learn a stroke if they can float relaxed for ten seconds, otherwise all energy goes to survival instead of technique.

Practicing swimming lessons yourself: exercises that work at home and in the pool

You can practice swimming lessons yourself in two places: at home without water and in the pool. At home you mainly train breathing, rhythm, and confidence. In the water you train floating, floating with movement, and the first skills. Both are valuable as long as you practice in short sessions and in line with what the swimming lesson requires.

Dry practice without water

At home you can achieve quite a lot without a drop of water. Have your child lie on the floor and imitate the leg movement of freestyle, rhythmically and without bending the knees too much. Have them rotate their arms as if wading through water. Blow bubbles together in a basin or during bathing. Practice exhaling underwater by first blowing out above water as if blowing out a candle and then repeat that in the bath. These dry exercises seem simple, but they ensure the body already knows the movements before water is involved, which saves a huge amount of panic and chaos in the real pool.

In bath and pool: game forms that really work

In the water, the more play, the more repetition. Exercises that work and that you as a parent can safely guide:

• Blowing bubbles and looking underwater: whoever blows bubbles the longest or collects the most toys from the bottom wins.
• Floating like a starfish on the back: first with your hand under the back, then increasingly longer alone.
• Jumping from the edge and righting yourself again: the basis of self-rescue in shallow water.
• Floating on the stomach with the face in the water and then exhaling calmly: the precursor to every stroke.
• Swimming short distances between you and the edge, with a diving ring or a high five as a reward at the end.

Keep each practice session short: ten to fifteen minutes is enough for young children. Always stop before the child has had enough, because a child who has to leave the water crying will be less eager next time. Repetition beats duration: three times a week for fifteen minutes beats one long afternoon per month.

How often should you practice for results?

Swim schools see the same every week: children who practice at home or in the pool alongside their lessons pick up new skills faster and maintain their level better. One or two extra moments per week, outside the lesson, is enough to make a noticeable difference. The most important thing is that the practice matches the lesson material: ask the instructor what your child is ready for and practice exactly that one skill, instead of trying everything randomly.

Safe practice: the rules that really matter

Safety comes first, and especially with self-practice drowning is the risk nobody sees coming. Children drown silently and quickly, even in shallow water and even if other people are nearby. The rules are simple: always stay within arm’s reach of a child who cannot swim, never leave a child alone in the bath or pool, not even for a moment, and never rely on flotation devices as a rescue tool. Swim armbands and wings give children a false sense of security and can even be dangerous; a child who always relies on armbands never learns how water really feels. Choose consciously which aid you use when and know what each aid can and cannot do.

What a good swim school adds that you cannot

Everything above you can do yourself, but it is no substitute for swimming lessons. A good swim school adds three things that are structurally missing at home: a national standard, an independent eye, and a complete learning path.

A diploma with national standards

The numbers show why that matters. According to the Mulier Institute, in 2024 about 14 percent of children aged 6 to 12 had no swimming diploma at all, roughly four children per class of thirty. In the lowest income groups, that number is much higher at 33 percent than in the highest, where 5 percent do not obtain a diploma. Worldwide, drowning is the third leading cause of death from unintentional injury, with an estimated 236 thousand deaths per year, reports the World Health Organization. The number of drownings worldwide decreased by 38 percent between 2000 and 2021, but children under 15 still bear nearly half of the global drowning burden, according to the WHO global drowning prevention report. In the Netherlands, 100 residents drowned in 2025, and in the past ten years, the average was 93 per year, mostly in open water, reports the CBS. These are not numbers to scare with, but to show that swimming safety is not a home project: it is a skill with life-saving consequences.

An instructor who really sees your child

An instructor sees in half an hour what you overlook in a month: a crooked arm position, breathing that comes just too late, a child who acts brave but is secretly afraid. That independent view is exactly why a swim school adds value. A parent wants the child to be proud and have fun; an instructor also wants every movement to be correct, because a mistake ingrained at the start costs months to unlearn later. If in doubt, feel free to ask what your child is ready for and why. A good swim school can explain that clearly, and the bad ones cannot, and that distinction is worth gold to you as a parent.

Progress you as a parent can simply follow

The old days, when your child after half a year said 'probably did something new again', are fortunately over. More and more swim schools work with an app in which every skill is tracked. In Swimmigo, for example, swim schools work with seven levels and 86 concrete skills, and parents see after every lesson exactly which exercises their child already masters and what the next step is. That suddenly makes self-practice very concrete: you no longer have to guess what to do at home, because you just see it. The app is free for parents and works in five languages, also for families who have just arrived in the Netherlands and do not speak a word of Dutch yet.

This is how you make sure your child practices the right things

Targeted practice beats a lot of practice. A child at level three who has just learned to float gains nothing from an afternoon of breaststroke practice at the edge. They benefit from twenty minutes of back floating, blowing bubbles, and short pieces of stomach floating with exhaling. How do you know what the next step is? By following your child’s progress in the swim school’s app, or simply by asking the instructor every few weeks.

For parents: from 'just doing something' to targeted practice

In Swimmigo, as a parent you see which skills exist per level and which your child already masters. Suppose your child has completed all exercises of level two and now has to work on back floating: then you know you don’t have to swim laps at home, but you should playfully work on floating on the back, in the bath and in the pool. This way, every free swim on the weekend automatically becomes an opportunity for targeted practice, without it feeling like extra lessons. After a holiday or break, you also immediately see if any skills have slipped away, and you can refresh those before lessons start again.

For swim schools and instructors: make parents home coaches

This principle also works the other way around: a swim school that gives parents insight into progress gains free home coaches. Parents who see their child still needs to practice three skills for the next level will naturally start working on that. It also prevents the classic poolside annoyance: parents practicing against the lesson material and confusing children. Whoever gives parents the same language and levels as instructors use ensures everyone swims in the same direction. Swimmigo is built for this: instructors track progress, parents watch along and practice at home in a targeted way, and the school keeps overview in one system.

Can adults learn to swim themselves?

The same applies to adults: getting used to and practicing yourself is possible, becoming a water-safe swimmer yourself is another story. Many adults who never learned to swim mainly suffer from fear and shame, and those do not disappear by struggling alone in a pool. A good approach for adults is a combination: a few lessons with an instructor experienced with adult beginners to build the basics and confidence, and practicing yourself in between to automate the skills. For a complete step-by-step plan, read the overview of swimming lessons for adults, which also addresses fear, performance anxiety, and the choice between group and private lessons.

Common mistakes in self-practice and how to avoid them

Self-practice is good, but a few common mistakes can negate the effect. These are the biggest:

• Starting swimming lessons while the child is not yet comfortable in water. Solve that first with play and familiarization, otherwise lessons become a weekly battle.
• Swimming with armbands as standard. A child who always relies on flotation aids does not develop a water feel and learns a wrong body posture.
• Practicing against the lesson material. Ask what the next skill is and practice exactly that, instead of following your own program.
• Too long and too little. Weekly marathons don’t work; short, regular sessions do.
• Continuing despite fear or resistance. A child who cries or an adult who tenses up learns nothing. Stop, do something fun in the water, and try again next time.
• Not tracking progress. Without overview, no one knows where you stand, and motivation disappears. A simple overview of skills, in an app or on paper, keeps everyone sharp.

The golden rule is simple: practice along with the lesson, not against it, and always refer doubts to the instructor. Those who do this can make the difference between waiting a year or a year and a half for the diploma with just a few quarter hours per week.

Sources

• Mulier Institute: more and more children in the Netherlands obtain all three swimming diplomas, swimming skills of vulnerable children lag behind, consulted September 2026
• CBS: higher risk of drowning among children not born in the Netherlands, July 2026
• Senate: initiative proposal Dobbe, Swimming Skills Act, under consideration 2026
• World Health Organization: Global status report on drowning prevention 2024, December 2024
• World Health Organization: fact sheet drowning, consulted September 2026
• VeiligheidNL: everything about swimming lessons, consulted September 2026